Sexual assault is a term used to refer to a wide range of assaults including rape, attempted rape, sexual battery, incest, molestation, spousal rape, and statutory rape. It’s important to remember that sexual assault is not sex. It is a crime in which sex is used as a weapon. It is an act of hostility and aggression in order to control, dominate, humiliate, and degrade the victim.

Sexual assault is an act of forced or coerced sexual contact or penetration when one person does not want to participate, even if there has been consensual sexual contact in the past.

Consent is when partners mutually agree to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly communicated through verbal affirmation in order to understand and respect each other’s boundaries.

Consent cannot be given by people who are underage, incapacitated by drugs or alcohol, or asleep or unconscious. Consent also cannot be given under intimidation or threat, or unequal power dynamics.

You have the right to get answers, the right to information, and the right to know. See our brochure that explains key rights, options, and helpful resources: page 1, page 2

No one ever deserves to be sexually assaulted or abused. No matter where you were, what you were doing or who you were with, it is NOT your fault.

Sex requires your consent. Sexual assault and sexual abuse are crimes used to exert power, to humiliate, and to control. Being forced to have unprotected sex or to engage in more sexual activity than you had wanted is also rape or sexual assault. Whether or not a weapon was used, you may have been very scared. You may have cooperated in order to get out alive. This does not mean you consented. Sometimes cooperation is necessary in order to survive.

Rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse are traumatic experiences. You may have physical pain, injuries, and strong emotional reactions. You may experience many different feelings, such as self-blame, shame, anger, fear, guilt, or grief. You may find you are unable to concentrate or focus because you can’t stop thinking about the assault. You may also experience flashbacks that make you feel nervous, angry or afraid.

Everyone copes differently and all of these feelings are normal. Lumina Alliance offers therapy services and a 24-hour support line for survivors who are interested in getting help: (805) 545-8888

Survivors of sexual assault or abuse deserve to heal in a supportive, safe, and empowering environment. It's important to remember: you are not alone, and your path to healing is uniquely yours. Here are some initial steps to consider when you're ready:

Acknowledge Your Experience
Recognizing the impact of trauma can be difficult, but acknowledging your experience is an important first step in healing. There’s no "right" way to feel—allow yourself to experience what you’re feeling, without judgment.

Give Yourself Permission to Heal
Healing is a process, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. Give yourself the grace to heal at your own pace, and know that you don’t have to go through this journey alone.

Reach Out When You're Ready
When you’re ready to take the next step, reaching out for support can make all the difference. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Contact Lumina Alliance to speak with someone who understands and can guide you through your healing process.

Call our 24-Hour Crisis and Information Hotline at (805) 545-8888. 

The choice to make a police report after a sexual assault is intensely personal and often a difficult one. Some survivors find the process empowering. Other survivors may find the process of reporting too overwhelming. A Lumina Alliance Advocate can be with you every step of the way.

Only you can decide if making a police report is the right thing for you. Lumina Alliance staff and volunteers will support you whether or not you choose to make a report.

If you decide to make a police report, please keep in mind:

• It is important to contact the law enforcement agency in the town where the assault took place.

• If you can, contact the police as soon as possible after the assault. There is a greater chance for evidence collection if a report is made sooner rather than later.

• If you change clothes after an assault, place the clothes worn immediately before, during and/or after the assault in a brown paper bag. Law enforcement may request these items in order to collect evidence.

• You have a legal right, in accordance with California Penal Code 679.04, to request the presence of a Lumina Alliance advocate during the initial interview and during all follow-up law enforcement interviews.

• Law enforcement may be contacted by calling 911, by calling the law enforcement agency’s non-emergency phone number, or by physically going into the police station. If the immediate situation is unsafe or if the perpetrator is still present, call 911.

When you report sexual assault/abuse, you will usually be asked to tell a uniformed police officer what happened. This officer’s job is to be an impartial investigator. They work to understand what happened and decide if the evidence collected is enough to support prosecuting a case against the perpetrator. The officer will ask many questions in an effort to understand the situation.

If it is determined that there is enough evidence of a crime, the initial officer will contact a detective/investigator. You will then be asked to participate in an interview with the detective. You may be asked to repeat portions of the event. The detective will make the determination of whether or not a medical/forensic examination should be scheduled.

If you make a police report, law enforcement may ask you to have a “forensic medical exam”. This is a medical exam for the purpose of collecting evidence of your assault. If you don’t choose to report the assault to law enforcement, you are still eligible to receive a Forensic Medical Exam. This gives you the opportunity to have physical evidence collected in case you decide to report the crime at a later date.

You can request a Forensic Medical Exam by calling the Lumina Alliance 24-hour crisis and information line at (805) 545-8888. Survivors may have Lumina Alliance advocates present during this process.

Here’s what you can expect at the Forensic Medical Exam:

• The Forensic Medical Exam is a medical exam performed by trained nurses who attend to the survivor’s medical needs and injuries as well as collect evidence that may be on the survivor’s body.

• The nurse will take photographs of any injuries.

• The survivor may also receive testing for sexually transmitted infections and antibiotics if they choose. Emergency contraceptives are also available to survivors.

• The entire process may take several hours, and all services are provided at no cost to the survivor.